Monday, September 28, 2009
Current Event 2 of tom nichols
So i have been very confused lately about a past relationship I have had. The girl who is a great sweet person seems to be confused. She acts as though she wants to be with me by showing she cares and wanting to spend time with me all the time, but something is stopping her. I don't push things with her because I feel this is something she needs to figure out, but i would be willing to help if she asked me. Its not another guy i know that for sure (I have confirmed it with her and others). I would like to know, from girls mostly, what she is thinking.
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Here's what she's thinking: She can have you AND Custer, so why settle for one? Tom, I think deep down you know this (I mean seriously, you both even sat with her parents at the volleyball game last week). So, sweet as she may have been or still is, she probably just isn't ready to settle into a serious relationship again. You guys dated for a long time, maybe she wants to know what else is out there. It's just sad that it has to be at your expense. Personally, I don't think you should "help" her, even if she asks for it, because like you said, it's a decision she needs to make on her own. Put yourself first for once bud, enjoy your friends!
ReplyDeleteI may not know the entire situation in this case. But from what you say, I can say If you and this girl have been together for a long time or even good friends, most girls (not all I don't wanna stereotype) can get bored easily. I mean if you stick to doing the same things over and over again a girl is more likely to stray and see what else is out there. If you keep her on her toes and interesting she won't be wondering what else there is. You and Hannah are right she does have to make the decision on what she wants. If you can talk to her or express that in some way to her then she has to take it from there. I don't know anything about this girl, but with your description and Hannah's it seems that she may need some time to find herself before she will ever be able to have a real relationship. If she is not comfortable with herself, and seems confused then she will never be able to be entirely comfortable with another person. That is just my thought. Hope it helps a little. Oh and Good point from Hannah also be sure to enjoy your friends. No matter how many girls come through your life remember friends will always be there.
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